ATTRACT the one you WANT or FIX the one you HAVE
Do you really want to find love but get frustrated by the people you attract?
Do relationships start out wonderful and end in the same disastrous way?
Have you come to believe that all the good ones are taken? Do you believe it your own fault and that you don’t deserve to be loved?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you probably have a pattern running in your life that sets you up for failure in relationships.
IT IS NOT YOU FAULT! You learned this pattern when you were a very young child, well before you could imagine choosing a partner to spend your life with.
You learned by observing the relationship between your parents or carers. All the radar was out picking up on the faintest nuances in speech and body language. You needed their love and care and we needed to be sure our world was safe and secure. Think about what is not working for you and ask yourself which parent matches the behaviour you are expressing.
IT IS NOT YOUR PARENTS’ FAULT! If your parents’ relationship was less than ideal, they learnt the same way as you, by first-hand experience from their parents. And so it goes down through generations. Each unknowingly passes on how they chose their life partners, good or bad.
THE GREAT NEWS IS – YOU can break this unconscious chain letter from the past. Patterns can be altered. For the first time since our civilization began, we are not powerless to break the cycles and rewrite the patterns that we inherited.
We came with a perfect code for our bodies, minds and spirits. That code is doing its best to work with everything we give it without judgment.
It is easy to work with when you learn how.